Warm weather has been taking its sweet time getting to our neck of the woods, which has seemed, to me, the perfect excuse to put off spring cleaning. But with just 8 weeks or so until summer, I feel I can't delay any longer. It's time to break out the heavy scrubbing tools.More importantly, it's time to break out the strategies that will allow me to get cleaning done with a toddler around.
My approach to deep cleaning is two-fold:
1. Don't stress the dirt, just make it livable
2. Make the clean up as toddler-friendly as possible by using green cleaning products and getting tots involved.
In fact, rather than dread the work and the need to balance caring for your little one and your domestic duties, think of this season's clean up as a chance to teach your toddler about your home
. It's the perfect way to make the entire ritual more fun and fulfilling than ever.
However, if your cleaning sessions prove to be less than idyllic with the wild tot around and more messy than made up, you might want to look for ways to give your little one her own secure play space where she can be contained and happy while you get a few things done nearbyImage: lusi /freeimages.com
That is not my bunny. Much to their disappointment, my children need to visit other people's homes (or in the case of this picture, the town library) to play with pets. My husband and I briefly considered getting a dog, but I felt it was too much responsibility on top of what I was already juggling -- especially when it came to trying to keep Little Guy from pulling a tail or sticking fingers in a canine's mouth.
While we've decided that our toddler is not ready for a pet, we have plenty of friend who have created cheerful homes filled with small children and furry or feathery animals. Our friends have everything from bunnies to dogs, chickens to cats.
If you're thinking about a pet, consider what makes for a good child/pet relationship and the pros and cons of dogs, cats, or exotic animals. Then, if you decide to bring a pet into your home, invite us over -- my kids are dying for more animal time!
We actually had snow this morning. Not much, but it killed the hope for warmth. Next week it looks like we're scheduled for some long overdue high temperatures. I can't wait, and I know Little Guy is just busting to be outside more for fresh air fun. The older kids are designing a backyard obstacle course that their little brother than conquer. I'm preparing for a few trips to the playground.
So hurry up spring~
We're getting ready for the the big green day. It's an important religious feast day, but it has take on other significance as well. It's a time to sing, dance, craft, and get ready to welcome spring -- and whom among us ins't eager for some spring after this winter?
Of course, the day has a bad reputation for being nothing but a drinking fest. In truth, St. Patrick's Day is the perfect holiday to celebrate with toddlers.
Toddlers play in many different ways. Whatever they do, is a learning experience to them (even if it looks just like throwing things and chewing on stuff to us). The fact is, your little one doesn't need iPads or high-tech toys to build skills. Blocks and even a cardboard box can be among the most dynamic tools a child has. There are some playthings, though, that do offer special opportunities to boost early learning skills such as shape and color recognition.
If you're looking for something powerful to add to the toy box, consider these five fun learning toys and books. Image: Pricegrabber
Toddlers are really amazing people. Almost daily, they are forced to adapt and alter their way of doing things in order to accommodate changing bodies, advancing skills, and new rules from mom and dad. For instance, just when they've gotten used to sucking themselves to sleep, we come along and take away the paci.
There are some good health and safety reasons to begin helping your toddler give up the pacifier -- but that doesn't make it easy. Feel free to take it slow, but, according to the experts, try to ween your little one off the suckie pal as soon after her first birthday as possble.
I am not sure there's anything that a toddler loves more than freedom to move, but I do think that socializing would be a close second. While I can't always let my little kids have free reign in the house, I do make every effort to provide a safe play spot where they can both enjoy a little freedom and be in the midst of things.
An exersaucer, for instance, lets a baby who is not yet steady on his feet hang out with older siblings (although, he might also find himself being used as a doll, as my son did in the picture above). Play yards and enclosed areas are also a great way, I've found, to allow a child some time to develop independence, because you can give him some space and let him explore toys, books, and that tissue box you acccidently left nearby without anyone showing him what it's "supposed" to do.
And, yes, I admit that creating a safe play space (or preferably several that you can rotate a toddler through) can offer momma a bit of breathing room. In fact, with the right mix of toys, music, and plenty of long breaks to play with you and others, you might be able to retire the Wiggles Dance Party DVD as your I-need-to-get-dinner-ready distraction.
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