Did you know that studies find playgroups are one of the best ways for kids to learn friendship-making skills as well as build their self-esteem? Though there is bit of organization and parental planning involved, there are so many rich social benefits for youngsters that playgroups are expanding from coast to coast. Each of my sons was in a playgroup, which met twice a week to play and do activities together. We alternated at the children's homes. My boys couldn't wait for playgroup, and believe me I was just as excited. This was the time I got to see the other mothers, even if it was just for a few minutes. On many a day, a few of us moms remained chatting away in the driveway after we dropped off our kids with our infants in strollers, just so happy to be in another grownup's company. Many of those women became some of my closest friends. The truth is playgroups are great for kids--as well as their moms.
So whether you're wondering how to start a playgroup or improve the one your child is already in, here are a few important secrets I've learned to ensure it is successful as well as fun.
Find one other interested mom
If you already have a group of kids in mind, just invite a few moms over to talk it through. You could also find one interested mother: she'll usually be able to suggest another interested mom to get your group started. Or make a few flyers and then post them at your church, community center, pediatrician's office, or preschool. Be sure to include your name, phone number and email address, and age of your child.
Hold a get acquainted session
Once you have a group, simply invite the parents over for a "get acquainted session." Beyond exchanging names, phone numbers, email addresses and home directions, it's also a time to arrange a schedule as to how you will rotate playgroup sessions, how frequently you want to meet, and discuss the kinds of activities you'd like to set up for your children.
Discuss mommy expectations
Talk a bit about what will be expected from the hostess or if you want to even split the obligations (for each session two parents share the duties: one can arrange the snack, while the other mom plans the activity). Keep in mind that playgroups don't have to be held in one another's homes: some playgroups find a community hall or church facility to meet in.
